The whining is always about their room.
yay. for. me.
And you know what else? Here's the kind of whining I get to deal with: "Mommmmmmmy! You always make us clean stuff that Daddy doesn't make us clean!"
seriously.
I'm not above paying off my kids so that they will shut the heck up.
I could go on and on about how chore charts teach kids responsibility and money management. blah blah blah.
Here's my real life: We started chore charts in our house so I wouldn't have to listen to the whining anymore. And it's been a WHOLE WEEK of using the chore charts. And guess how much whining I've heard about them cleaning their room. Just guess!
Zero point zero zero.
YAY FOR ME!
I also had another reason for Peyton and Ella to start earning some cash. They are always asking for stuff. And by stuff I don't mean food and water, I give that to them for free because I'm a super mom. I'm talking about fun kid stuff. I swear, we could go to the most boring store in all the land, an automotive parts store, say, and those two kids would be able to find something they wanted. They ask and they ask and they ask. Usually I say No. Every great once in a while I say Yes.
And mostly I tell them that they need to put in on their Christmas or Birthday lists. But really, that last part is mean because Peyton's birthday is December 17th and Ella's is January 9th. So I can get away with that kind of talk a couple of months before Christmas, but that's it. I can't pull that kind of crap in February because it's just cruel.
So, now, when they ask for stuff 50 times a day, I can airily respond 50 times a day with, "Well, do you have enough money to buy it?"
And if they say Yes, then I'll yell, "Heck yeah, get it!"
And if they say No, then I'll try my best not to yell, "Well, it sucks to be you, kid!"
or
"Now you know what it feels like when I can't buy myself a new pair of fancy boots because I've been buying you two ALL THAT DANG FOOD AND WATER!"
Anyway. Here's what I did:
I went to Michaels and got two scrapbook frames and then I spray painted them white.
I let Ella and Peyton pick out their own fancy scrapbook paper. I used that as the background of their charts. I printed up the charts that I made, backed them with coordinating paper, and glue-sticked it all together. I used a glue stick because I wanted to be able to easily replace their charts as I change the chores and the rates of pay. I stuck the charts in the frames and hung them up - done!
The hardest part of this whole project was deciding what chores I wanted on the charts. I also threw a little math in there, too. I wanted Peyton and Ella to see how much money they were making for each chore and how it all added up (multiplied up, really). For example, they are expected to clean their room 7 days a week for 5 cents each time, which earns them 35 cents a week. They will each clean the dining room table 2 times a week for 5 cents each time, which earns them 10 cents a week. They get the same amount for cleaning their bathroom sink and counter because they work on that together, so it's not too hard.
All their chores add up to $1 a week. Too cheap, you might think? When I told Peyton and Ella they would earn $1 a week, Peyton's eyes lit up and he started jumping up and down, "Chores! Chores! Chores! Chores!" and Ella whispered, "A WHOLE DOLLAR?!?!" like it was some kind of magic.
I'm awesome like that.
The Parent's Choice is for bonus money and it's optional. Peyton, Ella, and I had an entire discussion about it. If they want to earn extra money, they can ask if there's anything extra they can do. I might have an extra chore for them to do, I might not.
Also, I might ask them to do an extra chore. Sometimes I will let them earn a check mark for it. Sometimes they will just have to do it for nothin'. I didn't want them thinking that they would get money for everything I ask them to do around here. I didn't want any of that, "What am I gonna get if I do this?" nonsense. Gotta nip that rubbish in the bud. Before it even starts.
Some things didn't even make it on the board because they messed with my magic $1 weekly total. Like laundry. Peyton and Ella always put their own laundry away. I fold it, stack it all nicely on my bed, sorted by theme, and they put it away. And they still have to, they just don't get paid for it. They like putting it away, anyway. They've been doing it for way over a year and they still think it's super fun. They're so weird! Every single time they make it into a race to see who can put away all their laundry first. It's adorable.
I hung the charts in the kitchen under my kitchen memo board and next to the refrigerator. I bought them some brand spanking new expo markers that I put in a magnetized holder on the fridge. Peyton and Ella LOVE using dry erase markers. Doesn't every kid?
I should have just ditched the payment plan and told them that every time they do a chore they would be ALLOWED to write a check mark on the glass of their charts with the magical dry erase marker. And if they complete all their chores they would be ALLOWED to magically erase the marks with a paper towel at the end of the week.
School hasn't started here yet, so they can't do the Empty Backpack / Lunchbag chore. And we're in the process of painting and staining our dining room table, so that's out, too. They've decided to make up the missing chore money with doing a bunch of Parent's Choice chores this week.
I love the charts.
Peyton and Ella love their charts.
And, wait, what's that sound? Ah, yes, it's the sound of a room being cleaned with the glorious absence of whining.
YAY!!!!!! Yay! I love them!!! I'll take 2 :)
ReplyDeleteThis was an awesome post! We also use a dry erase type of chore chart in our home and it works GREAT! I think my son will do anything to use that marker. He thinks it's cool. But dang-it-all, just like you I wish I would have thoughth of using the dry erase marker as the reward in itself :)
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Awww...man! I wish I'd thought of the picture frames and dry erase markers!!
ReplyDeleteWe just made charts here out of large poster board and use smiley face stickers. Although that is going REALLY well. There's just room for 12 weeks of rewards on the charts. So...I could switch to this later. It would sure save room!!
We've got a "Veggie Chart", "Fruit & Veggie Chart" and a "Clean-Up Chart". Can you guess what the big issues are for my 3 kiddos? They earn prizes for their points. Like the bungie jumping thing, a carousel ride or a train ride at the mall.
What a super idea... I'm wondering at what age do I start something like this... Have a three year old, know the time is coming soon, collecting ideas :o)
ReplyDeleteGreat post - I'm just getting ready to start some kind of chore chart and I love this one - simple and easy for the kiddos to understand.
ReplyDeleteYour post also cracked me up. I thought I was the only one who thought things like "Sucks to be you, kid" to my kids...lol. Your sarcasm and humor had me laughing...thanks for that!
Great post, as usual...I laughed out loud. Glad the whining's stopped...that IS so annoying! Good job, Darcy!
ReplyDeleteSo cute! I’d love for you to link your adorable project to Things I’ve Made Thursdays! We have a Crafts for Under Twenty Somethings section that features kids and teens “stuff”, and your post would be perfect for this!
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Melanie
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My kids are not going to be happy but I think I need to make a few of these myself!
ReplyDeleteOk, first of all I was looking all over the internet for a cool, not tacky, dry-erase chore chart, and SCORE, here we go. Plus I get an excuse to scrapbook, well sort of. But Second of all, (or as I am fond of saying, first of all and b) I laughed out loud reading your blog about said chore charts. Funny stuff. Thanks for both
ReplyDeleteHow did you create your chore chart?
ReplyDeleteI'd love to print a copy for my 4 kiddos but I have no clue how to create them myself lol. Thanks for sharing! I can't wait to make these!
Hi Nikki,
ReplyDeleteI just used the Table feature on Microsoft Word. Hope this helps! If you give me your email address, I can send you the chart to print yourself. :)
Adorable - what Font did you use for their names? Love it!
ReplyDeleteHi Nicole,
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you like them! I used DJ Picket for the titles (Peyton's Chores, Ella's Chores) and DJ Groovey for the actual chore list.
Hi Darcy! I found your chore charts on Pinterest and LOVE them! I would love to make these for my three kids but can't figure out how to make it like you did on Microsoft Word. Is there any chance you could email me a blank chart to print? Thanks so much!!
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I would love a blank form as well. Love this idea!! mcvayhousehold@yahoo
ReplyDeleteLove your idea. Can you please send me the blank chore chart as well? Thanks.
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